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[Khea Karas]

(11-27-2012 01:10 PM)Kayleigh McMillan Wrote:  I just wonder who is to decide what is a constructive opinion or not?
I believe when posts are decent, meaning within TOS, there is nothing wrong with one giving an opinion in their own prefered way.
We shouldn't be to rigid about that I think.
Therefore since I see Ethereal has an opinion some people don't like it is not so much not constructive but something some people rather not hear that is something else.
To ask her to not voice her opinion at all for that reason is a bridge too far for me.
She has her own way of saying things (she already said she has a pretty straight forward way of saying things) our community knows a high variety of people and communication styles and I think since we only have the written word and not the tone of voice we need to try to give eachother at least the benefit of the doubt.
Sometimes things come off more harsh or rude but this likely has to do with the way people are used to talk, cultural difference, character and what not.
It is not perse so people who place a lot of smiley's, receive a lot of kudo's from their crowd and wrap their opinion in a sweet sounding way it is always a nicer/ better or a more constructive post it can be well hidden unkindness.
I don't believe in censure of any kind.
If something does not sound nice to you please ignore it but don't tell someone to not say anything at all just because they have a different way of speaking than you have.

Regardless of culture or way of speaking, people should respect each other. Everyone has a right to an opinion, and its common curtsey and manners to speak in a civilized way towards each other. That was my point towards Ethereal, as she has a tendency to always snap and bite her way around this forum more than often. And when she directly quotes me and does so in this tone I have a right to defend myself and ask her not to do it. You dont need to defend her, its not your problem, so I respectfully ask you to not get involved pleased.