hey destiny,
let me clarify what i wrote above

we have talked about it and it was an initial decision but we have talked again about it.
as i put in the post above, "We may not have a "yes", "no" or "maybe" to give on some issues at some of the times they are asked for. And if it is a "no" as in KittyCats reply, please also know that we often bring various ideas "back" to the table to discuss them, which is why your input is so appreciated "
so again thank you for your input.
sincerely,
KittyCatS Princess aka, Callie